What kind of breast stimulation feels best? 04/27/2010
Breast sensation can change over time. Many women report that their breasts become more sensitive in their late 20's and early 30's. Breast sensitivity can also change with the monthly menstrual cycle, as well as with pregnancy, nursing, or other events in a woman's life. With the wide range of sexual sensitivity, and the variability in each individual woman, it is no wonder that men are sometimes overwhelmed or confused about how to touch breasts. As the breasts and nipples become more sensitive, women must learn how to communicate about what would feel good in any given moment. It is important that this is done with affection and a positive tone. Hearing your lover say "It would feel so good if you lightly stroked my breast" feels much better than hearing "Ow! That's too hard!" - but sometimes, especially when highly aroused, it is hard to find words to say exactly what you want. In addition to verbal communication, women can learn to demonstrate exactly what she wants- touching her own breasts and having her lover repeat the touch. This "show and tell" for adults can go a long way, and it can be highly arousing for both partners to join together in a four-handed breast massage. CommentsLeave a Reply |