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Sensual breast massage is most often part of lovemaking - when a woman is highly aroused the breasts become more sensitive and breast touch feels even better.

For many women, the best way to get highly aroused is manual stimulation with fingers. This can be an incredible way to pleasure a woman. Many people wonder if fingering is sex - but our question is how can fingering make sex even better?

Before trying to include sensual breast massage in your lovemaking, make sure she is fully aroused - use fingering, sex, oother kinds of erotic stimulation to get her fully aroused and ready to receive breast massage.
 
 
Breast sensation can change over time. Many women report that their breasts become more sensitive in their late 20's and early 30's. Breast sensitivity can also change with the monthly menstrual cycle, as well as with pregnancy, nursing, or other events in a woman's life. With the wide range of sexual sensitivity, and the variability in each individual woman, it is no wonder that men are sometimes overwhelmed or confused about how to touch breasts.

As the breasts and nipples become more sensitive, women must learn how to communicate about what would feel good in any given moment. It is important that this is done with affection and a positive tone. Hearing your lover say "It would feel so good if you lightly stroked my breast" feels much better than hearing "Ow! That's too hard!" - but sometimes, especially when highly aroused, it is hard to find words to say exactly what you want. In addition to verbal communication, women can learn to demonstrate exactly what she wants- touching her own breasts and having her lover repeat the touch. This "show and tell" for adults can go a long way, and it can be highly arousing for both partners to join together in a four-handed breast massage.
 
 
We all have our favorite word for our favorite body parts. Some people use the words penis, vagina and breasts. Others like cock, pussy and tits. Yet other folks prefer lingam, yoni and bosom. Whatever words you like to use, what we all have in common is our flesh and bones, our blood and guts, our anatomy.

The human body is a remarkable feat of engineering, and our sexual systems are certainly amongst the most exquisite features of our anatomy. More important than what we call our parts is how we use them, and the key is understanding the mechanics of pleasure: how nerve endings, muscle, blood flow and stimulation combine to create the sensation of sexual pleasure and orgasm. But once in awhile, it is fun to stop and look at the origins of our sexual language, a humorous dip into the fascinating world of etymology.

Let's start with breasts and our favorite English words for the female chest: boobs, tits and knockers. The word "breast" has both Old English ("breost")  and Germanic ("breustam") roots, both meaning "to swell" or "to sprout." This is a nice reminder of the nature of the female breast: softness swelling from the chest, ripe and beautiful flesh swelling from the strong muscular foundation of the pectoral muscles.

The word "tit" is a variant of "teat" and the word "titty" is on record from 1746. Tit, then, reminds us of the reproductive function of the breast, the production and delivery of mother's milk to the eager infant. Of course, the very adult desire to suck on nipples is related to this primal need, so perhaps our continued use of the word "tit" evokes some feelings of being nourished, fed, nursed.

The most casual and common word for breasts, perhaps, is "boobs" which is a more recent slang, said to date to 1929. Other spellings such as "bubby" are found as far back as the seventeenth century, and are thought to be derivatives from the Latin and Germanic words for the breast.

As humans, we have been giving our favorite body parts pet names and slang codes for centuries, thus the richness and variety of language we use now to talk about our sexual anatomy. But whatever we call them- tits, breasts or boobies, they nourish us all in youth and many of us in adulthood, a seemingly unending well of fascination, attraction, and yes, even the most mysterious of all, love.