Many couples find that the breasts are not included in lovemaking as much as they would like. Often, this is simply because the touch that is being offered doesn't feel all that good, or the variety of sensations is not enough to stay exciting for very long. Men report being at a loss, not knowing exactly what more there is to do beyond pinching the nipples or squeezing the breast.
A great breast massage always includes touch to warm up the entire chest area, massage the muscles that support the breast, and integrate the breast with the rest of the body. This approach to the breasts awakens sensation and makes the breasts and nipples more available for sexual stimulation and pleasure.
Most women appreciate a gradual approach to nipple stimulation. Some women who never enjoyed breast touch in the past discover all new pleasures through breast massage, and begin enjoy their breasts as part of sex. This website shows you complete breast massages, from gentle warm-up to highly stimulating and arousing techniques. Once you learn these massage skills, you will have a new confidence in your ability to pleasure your woman with sensual breast massage.
Breast sensation can change over time. Many women report that their breasts become more sensitive in their late 20's and early 30's. Breast sensitivity can also change with the monthly menstrual cycle, as well as with pregnancy, nursing, or other events in a woman's life. With the wide range of sexual sensitivity, and the variability in each individual woman, it is no wonder that men are sometimes overwhelmed or confused about how to touch breasts.
As the breasts and nipples become more sensitive, women must learn how to communicate about what would feel good in any given moment. It is important that this is done with affection and a positive tone. Hearing your lover say "It would feel so good if you lightly stroked my breast" feels much better than hearing "Ow! That's too hard!" - but sometimes, especially when highly aroused, it is hard to find words to say exactly what you want. In addition to verbal communication, women can learn to demonstrate exactly what she wants- touching her own breasts and having her lover repeat the touch. This "show and tell" for adults can go a long way, and it can be highly arousing for both partners to join together in a four-handed breast massage.